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		<title>By: kingchacdi91</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 07:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderfully composed post, thanks! 3qaDq &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yokyim.com/Art/16870/88/Companies-And-Private-Citizens-Can-Both-Take-Part-in-Green-Living.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;weightloss capsules&lt;/a&gt; o+.Yu</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderfully composed post, thanks! 3qaDq <a href="http://www.yokyim.com/Art/16870/88/Companies-And-Private-Citizens-Can-Both-Take-Part-in-Green-Living.html" rel="nofollow">weightloss capsules</a> o+.Yu</p>
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		<title>By: Identity Theft &#187; Commonwealth Bank – Account Information</title>
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		<dc:creator>Identity Theft &#187; Commonwealth Bank – Account Information</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 08:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Marc Oromaner&#039;s Lost In Myth: The Message of “Recon”—Learning to &#8230; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: DRush76</title>
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		<dc:creator>DRush76</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 22:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In fact, I don&#039;t think that James has resolved his issues at all.  He has not recovered from his grief over Juliet&#039;s death.  And if fans actually believe he has, I suspect they are in for a surprise.  As for Kate being his &quot;soulmate&quot; . . . I don&#039;t believe in the concept.  I don&#039;t care how much a person might love someone else, if he or she is incapable of being happy with that person, any love between them is not going to solve anything.  Right now, I don&#039;t feel it between Sawyer or Kate.  I believe that Kate is better off without Jack or Sawyer.  Jack is learning to let go of Kate.  Saywer, at the moment, seems incapable of letting go either Kate or Juliet.  In fact, I get the impression that he is simply running . . . from himself and his memories on the island.  And those memories include Juliet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In fact, I don&#8217;t think that James has resolved his issues at all.  He has not recovered from his grief over Juliet&#8217;s death.  And if fans actually believe he has, I suspect they are in for a surprise.  As for Kate being his &#8220;soulmate&#8221; . . . I don&#8217;t believe in the concept.  I don&#8217;t care how much a person might love someone else, if he or she is incapable of being happy with that person, any love between them is not going to solve anything.  Right now, I don&#8217;t feel it between Sawyer or Kate.  I believe that Kate is better off without Jack or Sawyer.  Jack is learning to let go of Kate.  Saywer, at the moment, seems incapable of letting go either Kate or Juliet.  In fact, I get the impression that he is simply running . . . from himself and his memories on the island.  And those memories include Juliet.</p>
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		<title>By: DRush76</title>
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		<dc:creator>DRush76</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 22:34:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;James carried this pain around with him until he was able to exorcise his demons by killing the man he believed to be Sawyer in the Season 3 episode, “The Brig.” I say “believed” because it is still unclear who this man really was and how he got to the island. Whether or not the man James killed was really the actual man who conned his parents though is irrelevant. The important thing was that he believed that it was and thereby was able to resolve his issues.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;


If killing Anthony Cooper was the only way for James to resolve his issues about his parents&#039; death, then he didn&#039;t learn shit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;James carried this pain around with him until he was able to exorcise his demons by killing the man he believed to be Sawyer in the Season 3 episode, “The Brig.” I say “believed” because it is still unclear who this man really was and how he got to the island. Whether or not the man James killed was really the actual man who conned his parents though is irrelevant. The important thing was that he believed that it was and thereby was able to resolve his issues.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>If killing Anthony Cooper was the only way for James to resolve his issues about his parents&#8217; death, then he didn&#8217;t learn shit.</p>
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		<title>By: Lost In Myth: “Ab Aeterno”-Cadabra! And the Island Is…A Cork?? &#124; The Layman&#39;s Answers to Everything</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lost In Myth: “Ab Aeterno”-Cadabra! And the Island Is…A Cork?? &#124; The Layman&#39;s Answers to Everything</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 15:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in “The Message of “Recon”—Learning to Let Go,” we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo’s wife [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in “The Message of “Recon”—Learning to Let Go,” we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo’s wife [...]</p>
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		<title>By: When Falls the Coliseum &#187; Lost in myth: “Ab Aeterno”-cadabra! And the island is…a cork??</title>
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		<dc:creator>When Falls the Coliseum &#187; Lost in myth: “Ab Aeterno”-cadabra! And the island is…a cork??</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in &#8220;The Message of &#8220;Recon&#8221; &#8212; Learning to Let Go,&#8221; we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo&#8217;s [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in &#8220;The Message of &#8220;Recon&#8221; &#8212; Learning to Let Go,&#8221; we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo&#8217;s [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner’s Lost In Myth: “Ab Aeterno”-Cadabra! And the Island Is…A Cork?? DocArzt&#39;s LOST Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner’s Lost In Myth: “Ab Aeterno”-Cadabra! And the Island Is…A Cork?? DocArzt&#39;s LOST Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in “The Message of “Recon”—Learning to Let Go,” we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo’s wife [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] been the case of most of the characters on Lost. Yes, shit happens here in hell. But as I wrote in “The Message of “Recon”—Learning to Let Go,” we can choose to carry that pain with us our whole lives, or learn to let go. As Ricardo’s wife [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Sleepy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sleepy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 20:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. I almost choked, but I managed to swallow it. Amazing explanation, I agree.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. I almost choked, but I managed to swallow it. Amazing explanation, I agree.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 18:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks JDR. I offer one explanation for how the reveal could happen without it being reincarnation in my book. You can also go to The Myth of Lost Facebook page and under the Discussions section there is a posting for &quot;Season 6 Spoiler Free Theories&quot;  Theory #7 is basically The Myth of Lost theory. Here&#039;s a link:

http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=34096821137&amp;topic=10905</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks JDR. I offer one explanation for how the reveal could happen without it being reincarnation in my book. You can also go to The Myth of Lost Facebook page and under the Discussions section there is a posting for &#8220;Season 6 Spoiler Free Theories&#8221;  Theory #7 is basically The Myth of Lost theory. Here&#8217;s a link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=34096821137&#038;topic=10905" rel="nofollow">http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=34096821137&#038;topic=10905</a></p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe that all of us have the same access to answers that the writers are channelling. Some of us are just more open to hearing them and sharing them. Obviously, we do not share this belief. 

Ultimately though, what difference does it make if the show really provides answers channelled from another source or is just a well-constructed TV show if either way it is helping people with their own lives? Why do you take issue with the reason why people feel they are being helped? However people feel they are being helped, let them believe that. If your god is science and you like to believe that everything can be rationally explained using the laws of the universe that we can decipher and this makes you feel better then go ahead and believe it. 

I&#039;ve read and/or watched a lot of well-constructed stories that have not spoken to me in the least. Most of the Academy agreed that &quot;Hurt Locker&quot; was a much better movie than &quot;Avatar.&quot; I found it well made but forgettable and I did not resonate with its message. To me, &quot;Avatar&quot; had a much richer mythology and was far better at communicating an important message to audiences. 

I don&#039;t see why it is necessary to view LOST as just a show, and definitely don&#039;t see why it should matter one way or the other to anyone. I write from my perspective. If it resonates with someone and helps them on their journey, great. If not, then perhaps they can find that source elsewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that all of us have the same access to answers that the writers are channelling. Some of us are just more open to hearing them and sharing them. Obviously, we do not share this belief. </p>
<p>Ultimately though, what difference does it make if the show really provides answers channelled from another source or is just a well-constructed TV show if either way it is helping people with their own lives? Why do you take issue with the reason why people feel they are being helped? However people feel they are being helped, let them believe that. If your god is science and you like to believe that everything can be rationally explained using the laws of the universe that we can decipher and this makes you feel better then go ahead and believe it. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read and/or watched a lot of well-constructed stories that have not spoken to me in the least. Most of the Academy agreed that &#8220;Hurt Locker&#8221; was a much better movie than &#8220;Avatar.&#8221; I found it well made but forgettable and I did not resonate with its message. To me, &#8220;Avatar&#8221; had a much richer mythology and was far better at communicating an important message to audiences. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t see why it is necessary to view LOST as just a show, and definitely don&#8217;t see why it should matter one way or the other to anyone. I write from my perspective. If it resonates with someone and helps them on their journey, great. If not, then perhaps they can find that source elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Eve. Glad they have been able to be meaningful to you. As for Hutchence&#039;s quote, I would alter it a bit to say that many of us have wings, but are getting frustrated trying to swim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Eve. Glad they have been able to be meaningful to you. As for Hutchence&#8217;s quote, I would alter it a bit to say that many of us have wings, but are getting frustrated trying to swim.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:35:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Sleepy. I totally believe that this is a purpose of the show.

In my book I talk about how writers are modern-day shaman. They likely don&#039;t even realizing the extent to what what they are channeling. Ultimately though, like Star Wars and the Matrix, they are helping to weave the tapestry that is our modern-day mythology. We are outgrowing the stories from thousands of years ago but keeping their inner truths. The souls of those stories are still being used with our new ones, but now the containers they fit in are more in line with updated concepts that make them easier for us to understand based upon our current level of scientific and spiritual understanding. Our modern myths can now talk about multiverses and alternate dimensions and proxies whereas the stories of the Bible could only allude to them with metaphor and hidden meanings. We are getting closer and closer to understanding how the world really works and one day our modern myths will no longer have to be metaphors at all but completely on the story surface because we will be ready to understand it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Sleepy. I totally believe that this is a purpose of the show.</p>
<p>In my book I talk about how writers are modern-day shaman. They likely don&#8217;t even realizing the extent to what what they are channeling. Ultimately though, like Star Wars and the Matrix, they are helping to weave the tapestry that is our modern-day mythology. We are outgrowing the stories from thousands of years ago but keeping their inner truths. The souls of those stories are still being used with our new ones, but now the containers they fit in are more in line with updated concepts that make them easier for us to understand based upon our current level of scientific and spiritual understanding. Our modern myths can now talk about multiverses and alternate dimensions and proxies whereas the stories of the Bible could only allude to them with metaphor and hidden meanings. We are getting closer and closer to understanding how the world really works and one day our modern myths will no longer have to be metaphors at all but completely on the story surface because we will be ready to understand it.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your kind words SummerRain. I believe our thoughts have a lot to do with our experience on this world so I will continue to believe that all this will result in some ultimate purpose for a greater good. Namaste.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your kind words SummerRain. I believe our thoughts have a lot to do with our experience on this world so I will continue to believe that all this will result in some ultimate purpose for a greater good. Namaste.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since it hasn&#039;t been specifically called out by the show, I think Sawyer&#039;s masochistic/self-hate evolution is really a matter of opinion. I believe it began when he realized he had become the thing he hated most, and that happened when he was conning the family with the little boy and decided to forget the whole con. Sawyer&#039;s self-hate seems to be tied to calling himself Sawyer. I do not think he has this self-hate in his flash-sideways. There, he is not a masochist or a con man. Nor does he call himself Sawyer. However, he still has not learned to let go of his family or the real Sawyer. It seems to me that he did not complete the healing process on the island. 

Ultimately, I don&#039;t think the details really matter. My point it that Sawyer came to the island with an issue that the island is trying to solve. His issue is learning to get over his grudge and healing from a major loss. This is a two-part healing process that would involve him purging the hatred (killing Sawyer) and getting over losing a love (Juliet). 

I&#039;m not sure if you&#039;ve read my book, but my arguments might make more sense within the context of the bigger theory I explain there--whether it be the literal explanation of the show, or just the metaphorical explanation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since it hasn&#8217;t been specifically called out by the show, I think Sawyer&#8217;s masochistic/self-hate evolution is really a matter of opinion. I believe it began when he realized he had become the thing he hated most, and that happened when he was conning the family with the little boy and decided to forget the whole con. Sawyer&#8217;s self-hate seems to be tied to calling himself Sawyer. I do not think he has this self-hate in his flash-sideways. There, he is not a masochist or a con man. Nor does he call himself Sawyer. However, he still has not learned to let go of his family or the real Sawyer. It seems to me that he did not complete the healing process on the island. </p>
<p>Ultimately, I don&#8217;t think the details really matter. My point it that Sawyer came to the island with an issue that the island is trying to solve. His issue is learning to get over his grudge and healing from a major loss. This is a two-part healing process that would involve him purging the hatred (killing Sawyer) and getting over losing a love (Juliet). </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure if you&#8217;ve read my book, but my arguments might make more sense within the context of the bigger theory I explain there&#8211;whether it be the literal explanation of the show, or just the metaphorical explanation.</p>
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		<title>By: JDR</title>
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		<dc:creator>JDR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 23:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also am sorry for your loss.  

I enjoyed this recap, it was very moving and insightful.  I partially agree with &#039;The Smoke Monster&#039;, who said that you may be looking too deeply; but if you can find that kind of truth in a TV show, more power to you.  

I think the theory that the flash-sideways is the epilogue of our characters makes a lot of sense.  I don&#039;t read many theories, but this has been mentioned a few times by various writers.  If it turns out to be true, it&#039;ll be interesting to see how the writers execute the reveal without it seeming too much like &quot;reincarnation&quot;.  That said, I don&#039;t see how the flash-sideways could be anything else and still be meaningful.  We&#039;ll find out soon enough.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also am sorry for your loss.  </p>
<p>I enjoyed this recap, it was very moving and insightful.  I partially agree with &#8216;The Smoke Monster&#8217;, who said that you may be looking too deeply; but if you can find that kind of truth in a TV show, more power to you.  </p>
<p>I think the theory that the flash-sideways is the epilogue of our characters makes a lot of sense.  I don&#8217;t read many theories, but this has been mentioned a few times by various writers.  If it turns out to be true, it&#8217;ll be interesting to see how the writers execute the reveal without it seeming too much like &#8220;reincarnation&#8221;.  That said, I don&#8217;t see how the flash-sideways could be anything else and still be meaningful.  We&#8217;ll find out soon enough.</p>
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		<title>By: The Smoke Monster</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Smoke Monster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 21:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two points to make - and I&#039;m not trying to be harsh, and this isn&#039;t &quot;flame bait&quot;: First, I would expand on your own write-up’s self-suspicion: “Perhaps I look too deeply into the messages of these episodes in personalizing them so much…” That’s exactly correct, you and others are just latching onto shared themes of personal tragedy. You’re simply finding meaning in others’ similar experience but the issue I have is that you’re somehow amazed by that when in fact it’s a very common, daily experience all over the world. LOST is a multi-faceted multi-year drama with dozens of characters so it’s eminently likely that the portrayed characters are going to resonate with large parts of the viewing audience – there’s nothing special or magical about it. It’s simply people (writers) telling stories about people (characters) based on the human condition whether expressed as mythology or personal experiences. 

The second issue builds on this last statement. Many people are viewing “LOST” as something bigger than it is. They’re thanking LOST for showing them this, that, or the other, when in fact, it’s just a well-constructed fictional drama penned by people just like you and me. They have no special or privileged insights that anyone of us already have. LOST is not a supernatual knowledge source, though to read many comments in these and other fora, you’d think it was. Again, it’s just people (writers) telling relatable stories to other people (viewers). It’ll do everyone good, especially as the frenzy builds towards the Finale, to remember this basic fact of reality. Enjoy the show, just remember, it’s only a fictional show.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two points to make &#8211; and I&#8217;m not trying to be harsh, and this isn&#8217;t &#8220;flame bait&#8221;: First, I would expand on your own write-up’s self-suspicion: “Perhaps I look too deeply into the messages of these episodes in personalizing them so much…” That’s exactly correct, you and others are just latching onto shared themes of personal tragedy. You’re simply finding meaning in others’ similar experience but the issue I have is that you’re somehow amazed by that when in fact it’s a very common, daily experience all over the world. LOST is a multi-faceted multi-year drama with dozens of characters so it’s eminently likely that the portrayed characters are going to resonate with large parts of the viewing audience – there’s nothing special or magical about it. It’s simply people (writers) telling stories about people (characters) based on the human condition whether expressed as mythology or personal experiences. </p>
<p>The second issue builds on this last statement. Many people are viewing “LOST” as something bigger than it is. They’re thanking LOST for showing them this, that, or the other, when in fact, it’s just a well-constructed fictional drama penned by people just like you and me. They have no special or privileged insights that anyone of us already have. LOST is not a supernatual knowledge source, though to read many comments in these and other fora, you’d think it was. Again, it’s just people (writers) telling relatable stories to other people (viewers). It’ll do everyone good, especially as the frenzy builds towards the Finale, to remember this basic fact of reality. Enjoy the show, just remember, it’s only a fictional show.</p>
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		<title>By: Handsome Smitty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Handsome Smitty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 16:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm.</description>
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		<title>By: dtruth</title>
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		<dc:creator>dtruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 08:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I said *poignant details&quot;. Not that you were ignoring the seasons as a whole. Sawyer spent his entire life trying to kill Cooper. He then killed the wrong man. THAT is what made Sawyer feel that he deserved nothing good and deserved to be punished. He became Sawyer in his quest to kill Cooper. Conning women and ending up killing the wrong guy and abandoning his child. So, Sawyer was a mess when he got to that Island. He was no longer that much of a mess and had started the slow and steady progress to some kind of normalcy until Locke resurrected the beast in Sawyer. That was the regression because after he did that, he hated himself even more.....and decided he wasn&#039;t good enough even for Kate, who we all know has those &quot;good/bad&quot; issues as well....but he tried to &quot;survive&quot; with Team Locke in Othersville and even asked Kate to &quot;stay/play house&quot; in the very house he ended up sharing with Juliet...but Kate had her own growing up to do. She had to learn to stay put. (Enter-Aaron) 

Sawyer wanted to get off that Island. He got on the plane saying, its time we get off this rock, Freckles. So, lets not pretend like Sawyer willingly stayed back at the end of season 4. After all Bens teasing about who Kate would choose in the real world, it was no surprise that even if he shared looks with Kate in the copter, Sawyer still felt no good, and he felt Kate wanted to get off that Island more than anything, so he jumped.

The rest is history...so I am not sure where you have linked Juliets death into this as some kind of &quot;retesting&quot;. Retesting of what exactly? Sawyers growth with Juliet was in realising that he was good enough to be loved by a woman. That he did have leadership qualities. With the safety of Juliet and their environment and no competition for Juliet, he was able to flourish as a man, a boyfriend etc etc. That is why he fought tooth and nail to keep that little bubble going. Juliet dying is not a retesting of sawyer letting go. Juliet dying as far as Sawyer is concerned, is just confirmation that he is not meant to have anything good in this life. He lost his parents at an early age. He never believed Kate loved him and even when he thought of giving it a shot, those old insecurities came back and he &quot;lost&quot; her. Then he thought he had found some sort of Calm with Jules and she dies.

Sawyer hung on to the guilt and his initial reaction was to kill Jack but I don&#039;t think he let go of that because he had &quot;grown up&quot;. Cooper destroyed his parents. Jack had a plan that they all agreed to go with. Juliet agreed to go with the plan because SAWYER did something that confirmed her fears. So, thats the difference I am pointing out to you. 

There is no similarity b/w Cooper and Jack. IMHO. If anything Sawyer is more the Cooper in Juliets demise because he actually did things that affected her that led to her death. Jack simply had a plan, and Juliet was collateral damage. Should families that lose loved ones in wars carry out vengeance on the ministries of Defence in whatever country undertook the war? NO. Juliet was collateral damage and if anyone should really be blamed it is Juliet herself, who chose to go ahead with a plan so that she never gets to meet Sawyer, so she never has to lose him. I don&#039;t even know where to start with that but its redundant now.

I don&#039;t see Juliets death as a test on Sawyers ability to let go. I don&#039;t see &quot;letting go&quot; as a Sawyer major issue. Self hate is a bigger issue for Sawyer and there Juliet played a part in the tapestry of the sawyer story because she helped in making him realise that he was worth loving, and she had his back and they were loyal to each other. Sawyer is seeing that he may have caused the death of this person because of his uncontrollable feelings for a woman who he doesnt think loves him or ever did and thats what is eating at Sawyer. Meanwhile, we as the audience know better. We know Kate loves Sawyer but again, Kate no longer believes Sawyer loves her and that for me is what makes the Sawyer and kate story this season a pleasure to watch....but I digress....

In summary, Sawyers issue is not so much letting go, its self hate. Jack and Cooper are not similar. Juliets death was not to retest Sawyer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I said *poignant details&#8221;. Not that you were ignoring the seasons as a whole. Sawyer spent his entire life trying to kill Cooper. He then killed the wrong man. THAT is what made Sawyer feel that he deserved nothing good and deserved to be punished. He became Sawyer in his quest to kill Cooper. Conning women and ending up killing the wrong guy and abandoning his child. So, Sawyer was a mess when he got to that Island. He was no longer that much of a mess and had started the slow and steady progress to some kind of normalcy until Locke resurrected the beast in Sawyer. That was the regression because after he did that, he hated himself even more&#8230;..and decided he wasn&#8217;t good enough even for Kate, who we all know has those &#8220;good/bad&#8221; issues as well&#8230;.but he tried to &#8220;survive&#8221; with Team Locke in Othersville and even asked Kate to &#8220;stay/play house&#8221; in the very house he ended up sharing with Juliet&#8230;but Kate had her own growing up to do. She had to learn to stay put. (Enter-Aaron) </p>
<p>Sawyer wanted to get off that Island. He got on the plane saying, its time we get off this rock, Freckles. So, lets not pretend like Sawyer willingly stayed back at the end of season 4. After all Bens teasing about who Kate would choose in the real world, it was no surprise that even if he shared looks with Kate in the copter, Sawyer still felt no good, and he felt Kate wanted to get off that Island more than anything, so he jumped.</p>
<p>The rest is history&#8230;so I am not sure where you have linked Juliets death into this as some kind of &#8220;retesting&#8221;. Retesting of what exactly? Sawyers growth with Juliet was in realising that he was good enough to be loved by a woman. That he did have leadership qualities. With the safety of Juliet and their environment and no competition for Juliet, he was able to flourish as a man, a boyfriend etc etc. That is why he fought tooth and nail to keep that little bubble going. Juliet dying is not a retesting of sawyer letting go. Juliet dying as far as Sawyer is concerned, is just confirmation that he is not meant to have anything good in this life. He lost his parents at an early age. He never believed Kate loved him and even when he thought of giving it a shot, those old insecurities came back and he &#8220;lost&#8221; her. Then he thought he had found some sort of Calm with Jules and she dies.</p>
<p>Sawyer hung on to the guilt and his initial reaction was to kill Jack but I don&#8217;t think he let go of that because he had &#8220;grown up&#8221;. Cooper destroyed his parents. Jack had a plan that they all agreed to go with. Juliet agreed to go with the plan because SAWYER did something that confirmed her fears. So, thats the difference I am pointing out to you. </p>
<p>There is no similarity b/w Cooper and Jack. IMHO. If anything Sawyer is more the Cooper in Juliets demise because he actually did things that affected her that led to her death. Jack simply had a plan, and Juliet was collateral damage. Should families that lose loved ones in wars carry out vengeance on the ministries of Defence in whatever country undertook the war? NO. Juliet was collateral damage and if anyone should really be blamed it is Juliet herself, who chose to go ahead with a plan so that she never gets to meet Sawyer, so she never has to lose him. I don&#8217;t even know where to start with that but its redundant now.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t see Juliets death as a test on Sawyers ability to let go. I don&#8217;t see &#8220;letting go&#8221; as a Sawyer major issue. Self hate is a bigger issue for Sawyer and there Juliet played a part in the tapestry of the sawyer story because she helped in making him realise that he was worth loving, and she had his back and they were loyal to each other. Sawyer is seeing that he may have caused the death of this person because of his uncontrollable feelings for a woman who he doesnt think loves him or ever did and thats what is eating at Sawyer. Meanwhile, we as the audience know better. We know Kate loves Sawyer but again, Kate no longer believes Sawyer loves her and that for me is what makes the Sawyer and kate story this season a pleasure to watch&#8230;.but I digress&#8230;.</p>
<p>In summary, Sawyers issue is not so much letting go, its self hate. Jack and Cooper are not similar. Juliets death was not to retest Sawyer.</p>
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		<title>By: eve</title>
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		<dc:creator>eve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I too am deeply sorry for your loss, Marc.  I lost my mom to cancer many years ago and am grateful to know that she is watching out for me and my family.  I also want to thank you for all of your many inspirational and enlightening posts.  I get something from every one. And yes, LOST is teaching us some valuable lessons as well.  That is, some of us who able to hear.  In the immortal words of Michael Hutchence from INXS, &quot;we all have wings, but some of us don&#039;t know why.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I too am deeply sorry for your loss, Marc.  I lost my mom to cancer many years ago and am grateful to know that she is watching out for me and my family.  I also want to thank you for all of your many inspirational and enlightening posts.  I get something from every one. And yes, LOST is teaching us some valuable lessons as well.  That is, some of us who able to hear.  In the immortal words of Michael Hutchence from INXS, &#8220;we all have wings, but some of us don&#8217;t know why.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Sleepy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sleepy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 00:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry for your loss Marc. 

Although I find it hard to believe that Darlton planned these episodes to be so deep, if you think about it the whole show could be a way for the universe to guide us towards our correct paths. 

I enjoy reading your articles, they always make me feel so philosophical. Thanks for your time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for your loss Marc. </p>
<p>Although I find it hard to believe that Darlton planned these episodes to be so deep, if you think about it the whole show could be a way for the universe to guide us towards our correct paths. </p>
<p>I enjoy reading your articles, they always make me feel so philosophical. Thanks for your time.</p>
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		<title>By: summerrain</title>
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		<dc:creator>summerrain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 23:50:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marc,   I am so sorry for the loss of your mom.  I, too, lost my mom from cancer, and know well the empty feeling in your heart.  I loved your writing this week (and every week) and your good thoughts for James and his redemption. Take comfort in Michael&#039;s words that we will see our loved ones again someday.  I pray it is true.  God bless you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marc,   I am so sorry for the loss of your mom.  I, too, lost my mom from cancer, and know well the empty feeling in your heart.  I loved your writing this week (and every week) and your good thoughts for James and his redemption. Take comfort in Michael&#8217;s words that we will see our loved ones again someday.  I pray it is true.  God bless you.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Spacebender and the same for you.</description>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Bezmina.</description>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Rams. And yes, good catch--those are also some indications that Sawyer has grown.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Rams. And yes, good catch&#8211;those are also some indications that Sawyer has grown.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Oromaner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Oromaner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Ament.</description>
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